My confusion: what cellphone should I buy!

The market is flooding with options, everyday you see a new phone claiming to fullfill all your modern day needs. My modern day needs are
1. Facebook
2. Twitter
3. Email
4. Internet surfing / sufring (whatever applies)
5. Sms
6. Calling
7. Music and videos
8. Camera
so the way a phone is used have changed dramaticaly. Finding a phone satisfying all this is a job that we all bearly wish to take before buying a new phone, we just go with the market trend and then embarrass ourself with a crap piece of phone that doesnt do what we want it to do. If you'r planning to buy the luxury iphone and thinking that all your needs will be met as you are paying alot then sorry to interept your day dreaming, you are wrong, imagine yourself holding an iphone 4 and your friend is showing you pictures taken with a sonyericsson satio 12mp that to he bought from a second hand mobile phone shop. So paying a high price is not the way to having a eutopian phone. What you need to see what you want and what you'll get. You dont need a retina display but you need a camera to capture pictures at best resolution. Weird it is that iphone 4 has a display capable of showing at a resolution that it is not capable of capturing. So its better to go for Nokia n8. I remember a year ago i was a music crazy text machine and experimented my hard earned money on many sets including Nokia 5800, Samsung Galaxy Spica, iphone 3G, etc. But still had problem in meeting my requirements. Some lacked quality camera, some weak in music, some satisfying both but a resistive touch didnt allow fast typing. Then i thought for a while that what i want and what phone is offering all that for me. I wanted a mobile that is Nseries + Eseries + n-gage + XpressMusic all in one and that was Nokia 5730 XpressMusic, offering all i needed. I bought it and used it happily for a year before switching to Blackberry Curve 9300 as now my priorities have changed.